Male gender dysphoria in a relationship

Premise
the male gender dysphoria causes in man a strong and persistent identification with the opposite sex to that biological and the causes are still controversial, however, it is reasonable to hypothesize that could be generated by biological factors or simply from the personal experience of life, or perhaps a combination of both, but the male gender dysphoria is certainly not a pathology, and not even mannerism or fetishism, and even less paraphilia, psychic dissonance or whatever similar.

The ideal situation 
to live intensely this particular condition and explore all its potential concupiscence is the complete acceptance of the own diversity placing it to the guidance of a "Dominant Woman" who will be "Mentor and Mistress" in a couple relationship in which she must have the "Sovereignty" also in general management of couple life, and if this symbiosis also includes the mutual esteem and feeling then it will be a jubilation in constant evolution. Discover and develop the details of own gender dysphoria under the educational aegis of an "Partner-Mistress" is a privilege that permits an objective evaluation of the real aptitudes and progress towards the desired femininity.

Hypothetical exploration of male gender dysphoria 

in a couple relationship, "Woman-man"

 -  FIRST  TEMPORAL  PHASE  -

A )  This is an unusual and complex relationship, 

therefore, before starting would be better to write a private contract without legal value in which man accepts without hesitation the "Total Sovereignty" of "Partner-Mistress" in the general management of the couple life with a list of limitations to be agreed, and the woman undertakes in the exploration and development of the gender dysphoria of man with a minimum basis of monthly sessions; so, in this way they go to avoid unnecessary quarrels because the Only Leader is the Woman, even in the ordinary life choices. All this does not mean that man must be a stupid slave without brain and dignity, it would be foolish and terribly boring, therefore, in the couple relationship there must be a constant and serene intellectual interpenetration which enriches the Woman and the man who, however, must always accept requests and the final decisions of its "Elected Queen" within the contractual boundaries and of common sense.

B )  after the necessary premise, in the private sphere and during the initial period of cohabitation the Woman may gradually begin training the male partner concerning to the women's clothing, makeup, posture, depilation, etc ... but in parallel the Woman must conjugate her authority also in the general context of the couple relationship, furthermore, during this first cycle of time, the Partner-Mistress should leverage particular details that enhance her authority, even going to facilitate the emergence of latent femininity of man, but here are some examples : 

1 b -  use a large mirror in which man can see the progress by comparing them also with the image of its Partner-Mistress, but naturally the mirror is also useful in the erotic sphere...

2 b -  along with women's apparel the man should always wear a silicone implants for breast (realistic), even during the possible household chores, sexual foreplay and copulation ; the frequent implementation of this ritual creates in man a constant correlation with the "Symbol of Femininity" that contributes to exalt its psychophysical perceptions.

3 b -  when the depilation of the genitals and legs of the male partner will be permanent, the Partner-Mistress should introduce the "Ritual of the disappearance of the Penis" during the hours spent at home, and for this ceremonial the man should wear a special thong and then push the testicles in their original pockets above the pubic bone and simultaneously accompany the penis back between the buttocks and when the zone of horse will appear sufficiently flat he will lift the special loincloth pulling especially the rear, the visual and psychological effect are guaranteed, the location is convenient and in time the new allocation will become a pleasant habit ; even this ritual is particularly important because it increases in the male the psychophysical perception of her femininity and indirectly corroborates the authority and sovereignty of the Partner-Mistress.

4 b -  of course, even in sexuality are recommended some expedients and variations, for example, the woman must to forbid man the masturbation becouse it is an action too manly, furthermore, in erotic foreplay the Partner-Mistress must always hire a dominant attitude and therefore must give up to the canonical fellatio, but not to the cunnilingus with the man in a clear position of submission, instead, the level of sensitivity of male anus can be explored through emulation of the feminine pussy fingering, or sensual Sapphic position to scissor in which the lips of the vagina are in contact with the anus of the man who, as an alternative, it can also take the position on all fours and arch his back offering himself to the expert hands and tongue of the woman who "in this first temporal phase will not use the Strap-on", finally, for sexual coupling is better still practice normal penetration but with the roles reversed in the missionary position because it accentuates the dominance of the Partner-Mistress and forces the man to open his legs as a female by receiving the pelvic whipping of Woman ; also the latter variable contributes to gradually shape the psyche of man. Obviously, in the course of  preliminary and of copulation, the man should always wear the silicone implant for breast (realistic), and maybe even a pair of shoes with heels, or some female garment or various frills...

C )  The psychological approach is important but subjective, nevertheless it is possible to imagine a congenial conduct intended to fuel the "Overall Sovereignty of Woman" and the exploration of the gender dysphoria of male partner : 

1 c -  with shrewd premeditation the Woman must extend its sovereignty also in the daily routine, for example, accustoming the male partner to execute all those little actions that place it in a situation of evident inferiority; this strategy is useful to give continuity to the sovereignty of the Woman in the general framework of the the couple's relationship, and the maneuvers to achieve this purpose should appear predominantly spontaneous and, occasionally, alternated with strict orders.

2 c -  icy glances, symbolic gestures or laconic commands of the Woman will coincide with the wish of emphasize her authority through the blatant subjection of man who will have to prove his concrete devotion and gratitude, and this can happen at any time, even during the course of a normal conversation, but here is a generic example : 

2 c -  while the man has a normal conversation with the Woman, she suddenly changes her gaze and with the index finger indicates the floor pronouncing a single word, "Kneel", which will be followed by other orders..., a sudden whiplash, useful to remind to man that her intellectual freedom is permitted, useful and welcome but always subordinated to the will of her "Elected Queen"

3 c -  the Woman must assign to man a "Feminine Nickname" he will use in the private sphere in any context that she consider appropriate, however, this step is essential for what concerns sexuality and training that are direct to the exploration of gender dysphoria of man, because it facilitates her conditioning (psychophysical transfer) also involving the mechanisms of the psyche, moreover, for the same reasons, when the Woman wants to do reference to the dick or anus of her male partner, she must always replace (with some exceptions) the word dick with "Clit or Clitoris" and the word anus with "Pussy" or Vagina, and in a similar manner the Woman will go to adapt other terminologies and verbal expressions...; the systemic application of these expedients in appropriate contexts contributes effectively to the extrapolation of hidden femininity of man and to the metamorphosis of her intimate sensory perceptions, and consequently will also increase the man's devotion and submission towards her "Elected Queen"

D )  in domestic privacy the man can not and should not flaunt her femininity without the permission of her Elected Queen which is the only one to dictate the timing of the training correlated to the exploration of gender dysphoria, and even the moments in which she wishes to express her role as Mistress mixed at training or isolated from it at any time of the domestic life.

E )  during this first temporal phase the Woman has optimized and tempered her authority, but has also partly sacrificed her femininity to forge that of the male partner who, however, has ceded the sovereignty to her Elected Queen, therefore, arrived to this balance point the partners will decide whether to continue to live this experience in their privacy maintaining the respective roles in the level attained, of course with thousand variables among which the BDSM... or choose the road that leads to a second temporal phase in which the partners go to deepen the exploration of reciprocal roles, and in the latter case the management of the relationship becomes even more complicated, but also more engaging and intriguing.

-  SECOND  TEMPORAL  PHASE  -

F )  in this second phase of deepening, the woman will complete the exploration of gender dysphoria of man introducing the inevitable practice of Pegging (strap-on) to be followed by substantial changes that will revolutionize the couple relationship with new rules that the partners will have to agree and add in the original private contract mentioned to the point A of the first temporal phase.

G )  Pegging : 
at this point the man is already prepared, but with mastery the Woman will have to educate the partner to "Ejaculate only through Penetration with the Stap-On"  and  "General psychological Involvement"  corroborated by blasphemous words and verbal expressions that the Partner-Mistress will say during sexual intercourse, and initially, if necessary, to avoid temptations and facilitate the attainment of the objective it is advisable tie the man's wrists ; the Ritual of Pegging (strap-on) should have a minimum frequency of 8 sessions to the month up to a maximum of 15.  When the man will reach the orgasm in the mentioned mode, spontaneously and systematically, then it means that her psyche has solved the conflicts of gender dysphoria going to release and sublimate the femininity up to influence the body's sexual responses and the overall erotic sphere of her thoughts, and in this case it can reasonably affirm that the exploration of gender dysphoria has been successful.

H )  this is the propitious moment in which the Woman must propose and introduce in couple life those substantial changes that will go to satisfy her female sexuality up to here sacrificed to explore the gender dysphoria of its male partner, who hardly will refuse to subscribe the proposal... of course, despite the introduction of new regulations the trust, respect and intellectual interaction between the partners must again continue to support this second temporal cycle because they are the pillars that hold up the relationship by giving a logical sense to the same ; a difficult mission, but not impossible. Here are some new regulations, irreverent and plausible, that the Woman could introduce in the unusual couple relationship :

1 h -  the Woman declares "The end of the traditional sexual couplings" with the usual male partner who, when specifically requested, will have to satisfy her Partner-Mistress exclusively with possible cunnilingus or any other oral practices, erotic massages and more...; basically, the man will no longer have the right to sexually penetrate her Elected Queen, unless she herself imposes as an exception this sexual coupling through an explicit order.

2 h -  Woman officially declares "The end of his Monogamy", therefore, in different places from usual residence and without warning, she will be free of having sexual intercourse with other men or Women also in the absence of the ordinary male partner, but in this case, in the suitable context, Woman undertakes to tell the details of his erotic adventures to the usual male partner that through the evolution of own emotions will learn to enjoy also nell'elettrizzante atmosphere of these special moments, moreover, Woman will have the power of involving in her sexual games also the usual male partner who will have to to participate as an observer or as an active part in an appropriate role that will decide his Partner-Mistress. Woman will adopt the same rules even in the usual residence, but only if previously agreed with the customary male partner...

3 h -  Woman will go to plan various sessions (the private clubs are the perfect place) where she has sexual intercourse with other men in the presence of his usual partner who through the passive observation will learn to dominate and transform its possible jealousy in a positive emotion that will cause spontaneous sexual erections, 
and when this will happen with regularly, Woman will start the training of homosexual orientation of his ordinary male partner that, in specific sessions, will participate in the role of Sissy-Maid beginning to become familiar with the manhood of the lover of her  Partner-Mistress which, in this regard, might order to her occasional Sissy-Maid of carefully lick the cock of her lover just gone out of the vagina or suck the dick of the lover to learn how to provoke his sexual erection... and when the occasional Sissy-Maid will have acquired the necessary confidence and skills, she will learn also the art of blowjob with swallowing of the sperm, but this action must always be authorized from its Partner-Mistress ; of course, in concluding sessions the woman will play with a bisexual lover who at the appropriate time will go to sodomize the occasional Sissy Maid that finally will reach the orgasm through the manly penetration of a real dick in his virtual pussy...

4 h -  the ordinary male partner can not have pretensions on the lovers, but just make proposals to her Partner-Mistress who will always the unique to decide where, when, how and with whom the ordinary partner can have sexual intercourse and orgasms, which will continue to be prohibited with the classic masturbation, finally, the man should wear the chastity belt when required by its partner-Mistress.

5 h -  in the private sphere, and only when the woman so wishes, the usual male partner will have to use the term "Queen or Mistress" followed by the name of his female partner

6 h -  when requested, in the private dwelling the usual male partner must be available as Sissy Maid for her Partner-Mistress even without the presence of other people, but he must flaunt her femininity only with the permission or direct order of the Elected Queen who, also in this second temporal phase, she can develope the own role of Mistress at any time and context of domestic life, even mixed with the scheduled sessions.

7 h -  and so on......

The second temporal phase 
must be developed with gradually and prudently combined with sensitivity and intelligence, but naturally the course of events will direct the partners towards a new interpretation of the couple relationship whose happy evolution will be directly proportional to their complementary will and desire of transgression... and in this regard even in the second temporal phase is plausible interpose the variable BDSM...


CONCLUSIONS :
in this fantastic adventure the Woman has had remarkable benefits because it has consolidated her dominant temperament through the continuity of couple life exploring also the own sexuality beyond the limits of conventional monogamy, furthermore, the woman has been also the exclusive muse and authoress who has inspired and orchestrated the gradual psychophysical transformation of his traveling companion, but also the man has had significant advantages because through her Partner-Mistress he has acquired a superior consciousness about the own gender dysphoria materialising also the correlated psychological facets that, as a sharp scalpel, have surgically feminized his sensory and sexual perceptions that have been developed and integrated into an Intelligent Femdom Lifestyle, therefore, the itinerary of the adventurous couple of lovers might be concluded here, or continue, but in any case our heroic protagonists have lived together an extraordinary hedonistic experience that led them beyond the boundaries of the Pillars of Hercules in which, usually, Neptune and Poseidon hurl their pitfalls.....

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